Wednesday, September 18, 2013

September 18, 1913 - You have entered your second score.

Here is a very long letter that Joe wrote Helen one day after her 20th birthday. This long letter is filled with stories from his daily life, family updates, theater and his humor.






September 18,1913.
Dear Helen:
If you will recall, I told you that I had started to write you a letter, but could not complete it. I have it still, and if you want it, I am enclosing it for you. It starts to tell of what happened on Sunday afternoon. After this preliminary opening in which the men (about seventy five in the class)were feeling in good humor and were ready to listen to a talk on any subject—from religion to politics, judging from the remarks, I launched into the discussion.
I had had a very enjoyable morning at the service, had a dandy dinner, and a very pleasant afternoon, and when I began to talk felt very satisfied with things. And as I went along the air seemed to be teeming with ideas, and all I had to do was to reach out and pluck one whenever it was necessary. And here is something to make you show those most wonderful teeth. Do you recall my fingering the "Message to Garcia" to the great discomfort of Butz, and reading a snatch of it here and there-when nobody was looking? As a matter of fact I read it exactly three times that afternoon in your house-once to the accompaniment of Morning Mood-and I used this as my theme. A general outline in rough of how I planned the talk out was as follows: to tell the story of Rowen, with a few remarks by Elbert H.,to talk about some of the remarkable achievements of Christ and their influence, to discuss similar and even greater achievements by the Old Testament heroes and seers, and concluding with the thought that each of these men were sent to deliver a message to Garcia-the world:; and that while it was necessary to do honor to the bearers of all good messages, the essential was to believe the message, carry out its summons, and perform all its commands, and to worship and obey the sender not the messenger. And then some pleasantries and the talk was no more. Of course spread out for three quarters of an hour it perhaps would appear a little better than the crude outline just given; but it gives you a fairly good idea what I raved about-as my sister here remarked when I told home what had happened.
That was some paragraph. And according to Hoyle it is technically correct. It has only one topic for discussion in it. For further reference to this call on Lil-you know your little sister.
As I struck or rather reached the station last night it began to pour. The rain followed us and when I arrived here the town looked like the bottom of a lake.
While typewriting your letter, I was interrupted and had to stop. I expected to finish the letter and mail it last night, but had to attend a meeting of the Board of Appraisal of Benefits and Damages, a committee of our city Council (like your Board of Alderman) and when I finished last night it was quite late. So I deferred til this morning and am sending you a letter written in longhand, typewriting and English.
As you will see from a clipping that is enclosed they are trying to widen a portion of Main Street (our Broadway umbeschrieen)* (God forbid! It should happen!) and our clients (Rogers Clothing Co.) would sustain about $15,000 damages. I claimed that the widening was unnecessary commensurate with the cost entailed on the city, and altho the building inspector originally testified that the damages would only be $501, after severely cross-examining him, he told the committee that I was correct and that it would cost more, in fact that it was not really necessary to widen the street at this point. Ans so the matter has gone over until next Thursday.
I had planned on being in New York today but on account of the hearing yesterday had to defer it till tomorrow morning.
During the last two days, the degree team of our lodge (at the head of which order is Dr. Joseph Silverman of Temple Emanu-El) of which yours truly is chairman, has been invited to initiate a large class of candidates in New London on Monday evening the 22nd, at which time a banquet will be given where Senators Brandegee and Mahan (the latter a Congressman) States Attorney Hull, Dr. Silverman and Governor Baldwin of this State are inviting guests. All of these gentlemen are down for toasts as well as my brother, and another whose name modesty prevents me from mentioning.
And for Sunday Sept. 28, we are to be in New Britain on a similar mission.
And for October 5, my brother and I are to be speakers at a Banquet given in New Haven, at which Ex President Taft will be present.
But here is some real news. Saltman is on our degree team. That's not the news, that happened to come to me then. Barnet - famous little Barnet - what do you think? I'll bet you can't guess. Well, I'll tell you. He started to go to kindergarten yesterday, and he'll be three in October (I will not mention the date). After school I spent quite a while with him recounting the important events in the first day he spent in the building of a great man - I hope. It was an ideal day for him too. The sun in the morning hid behind leaden clouds and as the day proceeded gradually crawled out till at noon it was bright. Isn't that the evolution of anything?
What worried me, if anything was when the teacher would have him count. He can do so up to ten; and I fear he would emulate the new "poopil" in the "Girl of the Golden West". There when the new pupil is introduced, the teacher asked him to count. He began laboriously, one, two, three, four, five, six, the class applauded, seven, eight, nine, ten, again prolonged applause. He is about to speak again. If you have tears prepare to shed them now. "Ten, Jack, Queen, King, Ace."
At eleven I have a court matter, and being ten twenty now, must get my"poipers."
I enclose a very snappy letter, an ad really, composed by Hubbard, that shows real literary style. At this late hour let me thank you for your kind invitation the other evening, and for the generous hospitality with which I was welcomed. You have entered on your second score in the game of life. When the three score and ten have rolled by and He is kind enough to add plenty more, my hope is that one word will sum up your efforts whatever they may be "Success."
And a word for this year. I know you will get all A's in your work, but remember college affords other things in addition to books. Take advantage of your opportunities in all college activities that are possible so that some day you will be able to sing, as we of Yale do of "those happy golden by-gone days."
Sincerely, Your
Joe

It is interesting to note that 62 years from this day in 1975 Joe died at the age of 89 in Fairfield, Connecticut.

The next letter will be on October 3rd.

Tuesday, September 17, 2013

September 17,1913 - Helen turns 20

Helen turned 20 on September 17, 1913. Here is a photo from September 1913 about a week before her birthday out with some of the family at Coney Island including her father and sister, Florrie. This will take you to more details of the photo.




Below is a scan of her date book from 1913 and the pages from the week of her birthday.


Thinking of all of the wonderful birthdays we celebrated with her.
Tomorrow September 18 is the next letter.

Monday, September 16, 2013

September 15, 1913 - Ingersoll - Liberator of Men

From what I can deduce from this correspondence, Joe sent Helen a short lecture that Elbert Hubbard gave about Robert Ingersoll. He then followed with a short note. It seems that Joe gave the introduction for Hubbard that evening.


 "BOB" INGERSOLL – LIBERATOR OF MEN.
It is said that the difference between man and the lower animals is that man has ability, to laugh. (Remember Jerry in Peg O’ my heart?)
When you laugh, you relax, and when you relax you give freedom to muscles, nerves and brain-cells.  Man seldom has use of his reason when his brain is tense.  The sense of humor makes a condition where reason can act.
Ingersoll knew that he must take his appeal to man's brain. Paine knew this, too, and so did Voltaire and Rousseau. But it is a winding way to' reach the reason of most people.  The unenlightened mind is in serious, solemn darkness.
Ingersoll let the light of human sympathy penetrate first, and from the good-nature which followed, he added good-humor, then sent shafts of wit.
He caused men and women to use the same reasoning faculties when contemplating the character of a god as of a man, of history in one book as in another, he knew their conclusions would then be sensible and bring a degree of peace and happiness unknown before to the world.
Ingersoll taught that what was wrong for men ought to be wrong for gods and saints; that what was considered not good, sin, for man on earth, should not be considered as fit for reward in heaven; that there was no justice in eternal punishment for temporal or temporary sins.
He asked consideration for criminals, those who had actually done wrong to their fellow-men. He pleaded for Christians and infidels alike to follow the Golden Rule, and do unto others as they would have these others do unto them.
Robert Ingersoll preferred to every political and social honor the privilege of freeing humanity from the shackles of bondage and fear. He knew no holier thing than truth.  He preferred using his own reason to receiving popular applause or approbation. His keen wit, clear brain and merciless sarcasm uncrowned the king of Superstition and made him a puppet in the court of reason.
Says Max O'Rell: "Ingersoll was not only America's greatest orator, He was a great writer and a great thinker; an infusion, as it were, of Johnson, Voltaire and Milton.  He possessed the logic of the first; the
persiflage of the second; and some of the sublimity of the third.  His arguments are constructed like propositions of Euclid; his style is vigorous, as clear as it is graceful, as poetic as it is humorous, and as verve as inexhaustible."
Elbert Hubbard.



Exhibit A
September 15,1913
Dear Helen,
I didn't know but what you might be interested in how I "made out" yesterday afternoon, and so am interrupting you again. I started something after this fashion.
"How mysterious are the ways of God! This morning I was planning to be out on a stroll along the Hudson admiring the glorious sunset. And behold, it is changed I find the sun rise - to address you. I had anticipated the pleasure of being in the company of good Jews at this hour; and now I find myself in the midst of good Christians. To paraphrase Shakespeare, I can sincerely say that Extemporaneous religious speeches to Broadway Baptists is not the meat on which Caesar feed. And so as a young and budding lecturer in this particular sphere of life, I will need your aid and succor. And I promise you that if you will furnish the aid, I will supply the sucker."

 Roycroft Press under the direction of Elbert Hubbard published many writings by Robert Ingersoll.

The next letter will be on September 18.